How do you define a miracle?

How do you define a miracle?

I’m going to encourage you to shift that definition and open it right up to all things good and wonderful.

It’s a miracle that you are healthy, have delicious food in your home, have exact change in your wallet, and found a spot right outside the store you need to run in to.

Miracles come in all sizes – finding a penny, or avoiding a car crash.

This week, I invite you to look for more miracles in your life, focus on them, and invite more of them into your world.

How do you define a miracle?

What you focus on grows so focus on the good stuff… and share your miracles big and small in our Entrepreneurs Finding Clarity group on Facebook.

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Best wishes for a wonderful week!

Do you want more referrals in your business?

Do you want more referrals in your business?

If so, this video is for you!

There are 3 great people to meet when it comes to attracting more referrals:

1. Your clients directly
2. People who serve the same clients you serve
3. People who are in your industry but don’t serve your niche

This week, I invite you to take a few minutes to think about who else is working with your ideal clients. Who can you meet and create referral partnerships with? Who else is in your industry but not serving your clients?

Do you want more referrals in your business?

Start thinking about who could be a great resource to connect you with the clients you’re meant to serve.

Watch the video and then share insights on the Entrepreneurs Finding Clarity group page of Facebook.

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Best wishes for a wonderful week!

What’s Your One Thing?

This week, I invite you to think about what one thing you need most in your business.

What’s Your One Thing?

If you were to set up a series of Dominos to fall over in your business and knock out multiple items on your to-do list, what would that first Domino be?

Let’s say you need more clients in your business.

What can you do right now to attract a new client?

Networking, speaking, sales calls?

Maybe you need to be following up with past clients to renew their contracts?

Watch this week’s video above to uncover Your One Thing, and take this week to focus on it.

What's Your One Thing?

Remember, you’re looking for the one thing in your life that makes other things irrelevant or unnecessary.

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For more on this topic, check out the book The ONE Thing by Gary W. Keller and Jay Papasan.

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Best wishes for a wonderful week!


Where are there Circles of Flow in your business?

I’m starting a new video series each week where I’ll invite you to think about some aspect of your business to see how you can shift your mindset.

This is video #1 (… so share your feedback and thoughts in the Entrepreneurs Finding Clarity Group or via email.)

Where are there Circles of Flow in your business?

Just like we breathe air in and out of our lungs, we need to keep the energy of our business — and all aspects of our lives flowing.

  • Getting dirty laundry into the bin to be washed.
  • Clean dishes back into the cabinets once the wash cycle is complete.
  • Donations made to give gratitude and make space for abundance.
  • Bills paid so that money can flow out and new money can flow in.
  • Selling a car so that you can make space for a new one.

I call these the “circles of flow”.

Watch this video and see where your circles of flow might be getting caught up, and what you can do to jostle them loose again, and shift them back into flow.

This week, make time to breathe and see where you can get things flowing.

Where are there Circles of Flow in your business?

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Best wishes for a wonderful week!

Want An Easy Way to Plan Your Next 90 Days?

Happy New Year

Want An Easy Way to Plan Your Next 90 Days?

Do you find yourself feeling a bit (or totally) overwhelmed by the New Year? Goal setting? Resolutions?

So much potential for greatness, opportunity for growth, and excitement buzzing around what will be…

And so much stress brewing in your head as you’re wondering why you’re not where you want to be in your business, feeling like you should be doing more, and the endless to-do list repeatedly rearing it’s ugly head.

Let all of that crap go!

It’s time for a new way of ringing in the New Year…

with grace, and ease, tossed with a side of fun, and a whole lot of passion for life.

Sound good?


Here are my 5 Steps to Planning Your Next 90 Days
Take a deep breath in through your nose, hold for 3 seconds, and let it out through your nose. Repeat.


1. Write down 3 things you are releasing. What no longer serves you?

That could be your fears, expectations, negative thoughts, poor eating habits, anger, frustration, and the list keeps going. Start with three and feel free to add as many things as you want to release.

I’m seeing a lot of people try to kick 2016 to the curb with anger and frustration without releasing the roots of the drama that happened in 2016. Let it go. Don’t shove it down. Release it. Let it out. Have a good cry. Cut your cords* and move on.


2. Write down 3 things you are embracing. What do you want more of in your life?

Cuddles, game nights, abundance, clients, grace and ease, health, happiness, perspective, flow, energy. Again, you can have as many as you want but start with at least 3.


3. What is the feeling you want for today, this week, this month, or this year?

The amount of time doesn’t matter. The shorter, the better in many cases as your life and your energy and the growth process you’re experiencing as an entrepreneur is happening so fast that you won’t always be able to keep up… or pick a feeling that will resonate in six months so start small and go from there. You can always revisit this.

Maybe you want to feel the flow of a gentle stream as it carries you softly through life while you observe your surroundings and go with the flow.

For me, I want to feel rooted into the ground like a strong tree with a solid trunk, expansive branches that are nourished from the soil below and the light above. I want to feel the warmth of the world on my skin and know that I’m strong, yet flexible. I can wave in the breeze and still be standing after a storm.

Breathe into it. Close your eyes and describe how you want to feel.


4. What are 3 specific goals you want to reach?

Make sure they are specific, measurable, and able to be achieved within a defined amount of time.

Do you have an income goal for this week, month, or 90 days? Or a program you’d like to have ten people in by Sunday night? Maybe you want to play 4 board games with your kids this month? Or eat one salad a day for the next 7 days?

The more specific, defined, and clear you are, the easier it will be to bring them into your life.


5. What’s the VERY next step you need to take to achieve each of these goals?

CAUTION: Don’t go overboard here. If your goal is to make $5,000 in your business this month, break that into 5 clients at $1,000 each. Or 10 clients at $500. What step can you take to get the first client? Do that.

For my kids, I need to ask them to play a board game with me. Easy.

Then I can order a salad for lunch. Done.

Keep it simple, stay focused, and just do what needs to be done.

Think LEAN.


LESS IS MORE. Make that your motto for 2017.


*For a video from my coach on how to cut cords and get grounded in your body, and other cool energy tricks that will help get your energy and money flowing, go to


**For a free training on 8 Simple Steps to Allow Business Clarity in 2017, register here:

What FEELING do you want in 2017?

Winter is here and 2017 is right around the corner.

You’re probably thinking…

“I should be creating a plan for 2017!”


“I’m so behind!”


“I should really set some goals for the new year.”

And I’m here to say, “STOP!”

Before you go off and set a bunch of New Year’s resolutions and goals and pick your word of the year…


Take a deep breath.

Breathe in. Breathe out.


Now that you’re more grounded, feel into what it is you do want.

Do not compare yourself to anyone else. (If you do, you give that person your money).

Do not fall into the “I’m not doing enough” trap. (You’re exactly where you need to be.)

Instead, consider getting clear on who you want to serve, how you want to serve them, and how you want to feel in 2017.

Instead of writing a bunch of goals, resolutions, or even a word of the year, let’s start simply by focusing on a FEELING.

How do you want to FEEL?

The past few years, I’ve chosen a word of the year to focus on. (The reality is, I can’t tell you what my word was for 2016. Flow maybe?)

Yesterday, I picked the word “Unflappable”. I thought it was awesome, and then a conversation with my friend Krish made me realize, that’s a negative, resistant word. It’s strong, but not uplifting. Solid, yet flimsy.

The word I’m after doesn’t really exist because what I want is a FEELING.

Going into 2017, I want to feel rooted into my body, connected to my soul, strong in my decision making, focused on what I want, deliberate in my actions, and solid in my business.

I want to root down, grow, and expand.

I want to blossom. I want to shine. And I want to be an inspiration for entrepreneurs who want to NOURISH their families, their businesses, and their souls.

What Feeling Do You Want In 2017?

What Feeling Do You Want In 2017?

The essence I’m after is that of a cherry blossom tree. With roots that extend past it’s branches, beauty in it’s blossoms, and strength in it’s trunk.

I don’t know how long this essence will be my focus, but it’s all I need for now. It doesn’t have to start on New Year’s or end after a set number of days.

I’m embracing it with all of my being and moving forward with more focus, will, and determination than ever.

I invite you to take a few minutes to consider your essence. What feeling are you after? What is it you want?

Feel free to reply with your feeling. Send me an image if you care to draw it out. Or post it on Facebook and tag me.

I’d love to help hold the space for your coming weeks, months, and 2017 to be more amazing than you ever imagined.

On that note… if you’re looking to get more rooted and grounded in your business, here are three ways to get you started:

Ideal Client Avatar Workshop
Tuesday Dec 20th from 11-1pm CST Join me online to build your Ideal Client Avatar for $97 Register here

90 Days to Clarity
January 9th kicks off the next round of our group program. You’ll identify your true talents, find your ideal client and learn how to speak to her, know how to inspire more referrals, and get all the support you need to design a business you love. $997 after Jan 1st. $100 off if you register by New Years! Learn more and register here

Quick Clarity Call
Ready to chat about where you are, where you want to be, and how to get from here to there? Let’s chat. Grab a time on my calendar and let’s chat.

Wishing you the most love and light possible this holiday season.


What’s an avatar and why do you need one?

Ideal Client WorkshopDo you have an ideal client avatar for your business?

If you aren’t sure what an avatar is, or why on Earth you’d need one (I’m not talking about the blue people from the movie Avatar), keep reading.

An ideal client avatar is a persona that you name and describe in intimate detail. Doing so allows you to focus all of your marketing efforts toward one person in a way that clarifies your message. And when your message is clear, your clients can hear what you’re saying and will be attracted to you instead of you having to chase them down.

If you don’t have an avatar, now is your chance to create one by joining me tomorrow morning at 9am CST (or on the recording) for an Ideal Client Workshop where we’ll be connecting virtually to draft out your avatar.

I’ll help you narrow your focus down to one person and help you figure out how to flesh them out.

If you have more than one avatar you want to work with, we’ll address that too.

I’ll share my avatar with you as an example, and by working together in this small group, you’ll be inspired by the collective and create a unique avatar that is perfectly aligned with your business.

Then we’ll talk about all of the ways your avatar will help you attract more clients.


Join us.

It’s $97. We start tomorrow morning. The training will be recorded in case you can’t attend. And I’m offering a follow-up Q & A call next week to answer any questions that pop up after the workshop is over.

To sweeten the deal even further, I’m including my video series on How to Network When You Hate Networking.

This one exercise has completely changed my business, given me the clarity and focus I needed to really charge forward in my business, and I can’t wait to share it with you.

To register, click here:

See you bright and early tomorrow (or on the recording).


Stop Being Busy… Start Taking Aligned Action

October is here and I’m ready to embrace the last quarter of the year, cooler temperatures and warmer clothes, but I won’t be slowing down.

I’m in full-on action mode in my business, and you can be too.


I intend to finish this year off strong and to do that, I’ve got a plan:

  1. Set goals for the quarter ($10,000 in monthly income, 50 new prospects added to my list each month, 5 new clients a month)
  2. Create a content calendar and list of action steps I can take to advance my business and attract more clients. I check the actions against my ideal client to make sure they are aligned by asking, “What would my ideal client do/want/need?”
  3. Start each day with a list of 3 “must dos” that I absolutely need to get done before I go to bed every night. They need to be achievable, can be personal or business related, and I’m sharing them with my coach for accountability each day and checking them off each night.
  4. Take imperfect action, make mistakes, and learn from each mistake. Break things to learn how to rebuild them and take every moment as a learning experience.
  5. Get support. We have a new dog and I’ve hired two vets, a doggie daycare, a pet consultant, and a dog trainer in the two months of having him. I knew I needed help and got it.
  6. Delegate. I’m in the process of hiring a bookkeeper, house cleaner, and virtual assistant. Why? Because I can’t do this alone and I need help. And it’s perfectly fine to admit that. I also know that by investing in these areas, I’ll have more time for my business and will reach the next level of my success even faster.
  7. Break tasks and projects down into bite-sized steps. No need to climb the whole mountain in just one day. I prefer to savor the journey and go at my own pace, one step at a time.

For more information on how you can create your own plan, download Your Simple Weekly Content Plan & Action Guide. It’s a great way to pull together the ideas you have into actionable ways to reach a broader audience and serve more clients. There’s more to this process, but it’s a great starting point to get you focused.


I’m Smart. Why Can’t I Figure Out How to Find Clients?

I’m Smart!

We all know you’re smart. You got good grades in school, likely earned an advanced degree, and you love to learn. You read a lot of books–for fun, for work, for self-improvement. You sign up for free online programs like you have all the time in the world and think, “This one is it! Now I’ve got the answer!” You learn a lot, but always find yourself wanting more, and more, and more.

It’s an insatiable need to learn more.

And it’s killing your business.


You’re looking for the answers to come from someone else, outside of you, instead of from inside, where your truth is waiting to be revealed.

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It’s Not Working

School taught us how to fit into the traditional school system formula. We were taught to find the one right answer. Take tests, answer quizzes, and do homework. There was the right answer or the wrong answer and we were trained to search for the right one. The teachers all knew the right answers and it was our job to seek more knowledge.

So  why do you feel so stupid? Why is your business struggling? Why can’t you figure this whole business thing out already?

Because you’re looking for a teacher give you the answers.

The Solution

The problem, and therein the solution, is that the student (a younger you) unknowingly became the teacher (the current you).

As entrepreneurs, we need to shift into being the leaders of our own lives and our businesses and to do that, we need to realize that we are the teachers. We know what we’re doing. We know our area of expertise better than 99.9% of the world’s population. We have all of the answers inside of us and we don’t need to seek the answers from others. Sure, we can always be learning. But we need to stop looking to others for the answers. We need to stop waiting for someone else to tell us what to do with our lives. Then we become the leaders of our own lives and can teach the people we most need to help.

That doesn’t mean we can’t ask for help or we don’t need help from anyone else.

Far from it.

We Need the Right Help

We need the right kind of help. Instead of answers and formulas, we need someone to ask us the right questions and draw the answers out from the shadows so that we can see them.

Instead of “Who can tell me what my passion is and how to create a successful business?” we need to ask “Who can guide me to find my own answers from within?”

I know that might sound deep and scary, but it’s far easier to find your fastest path up a steep mountain when you have a trained guide who knows what to look for. You might not follow the person in front of you up the same path, but you will be able to find your own path that fits your individual needs.

I’m that type of guide.

That’s what I do.

So if you’re wondering what’s wrong with you and frustrated that you aren’t able to figure out this business thing on your own, we should talk. I offer a limited amount of Quick Clarity Calls for free each month to see if working together makes sense. If you’re still reading this message, odds are good that you should sign up for a call with me. Let’s chat and see where your path leads. You can find a convenient time on my calendar here: Let’s chat.

I promise not to give you the answers, or a bad grade, and I’m confident that you’ll leave the call with a lot more clarity than you have now.

Time Management for Entrepreneurial Moms

Who Has Time for Marketing?

School’s out for summer!

For those of you entrepreneurs who happen to be moms of school-age children, summer is a busy time for juggling kid’s schedules, work schedules, and your own mile-long list of to-dos. It can be a stressful time where you count the days until school starts, or it can be a joyful time where you make memories, slow down, and even sneak in some valued days off.


If you’re an overachiever with high expectations for yourself as you are growing your business and wanting to serve more of your ideal clients, you may be under incredible pressure to perform and get things “just right” to make the most of every minute you invest in your business. (We’re not counting all those times you sneak a peak at an interesting Facebook post, laugh at a silly cat video, get caught up in a catchy news article, or *cough cough* watch yet another webinar on how to attract more clients).

So how do you find any level of “balance” while being surrounded by what can often times feel like a circus?

It comes down to time management.

Step 1: Start by lowering your expectations.

You read that right. It’s not a typo.

Lower your expectations of what you can actually accomplish. (I’m speaking from experience here.)

If you expect to be the perfect mother, wife, daughter, entrepreneur, friend, spouse, etc., you’ve got to let that go. The pressure is paralyzing and won’t get you anywhere.

Double or triple your timeline on everything, and then double it again. Do your best. Set an expectation to dedicate a set number of hours to your business, your health, and your family, and do what you can during the time that you do have instead of spinning over what you aren’t getting done. You might surprise yourself.

Step 2: Prioritize what’s most important to you.

Decide what is important to you and focus solely on that. If you have 10 things on your to-do list and three hours to do them, you’re starting out disappointed. Pick three tasks that matter to you and do ONLY those three tasks. Can’t get three done? Pick one, dice it into three steps and celebrate each step.

Want to attract more clients to your business and make more money? Focus on money-making activities. Period. Narrow down the activities that effectively get you in front of clients and link every action you have in your business toward those activities. (If you don’t know who your ideal client is or how to find them, email me and we can fix that.)

Free time? What free time? I’m a do-er. I want to touch up paint on the walls, make art for our guest bathroom, install new curtains, play in my garden, and watch a movie while knitting something pretty, but it’s not all going to happen in one day, or even one week. I have to accept that and focus on what I want most.

Same thing for your health. I need to see my dentist for a cleaning, check in with my nutritionist for a progress report, see my masseuse to reduce my stress levels, and get my back cracked so my neck doesn’t freak out on me. That means scheduling time for self care without feeling guilty that I’m not dedicating that time to my business or my kids. As a wise friend recently reminded me, “You can’t pour from an empty cup. Fill your cup first.”

And speaking of kids! I don’t think a full day of tablet and television time is a good idea for anyone. But I also have to accept that I’m not going to sit with them for eight hours a day reading books, supervising art projects, teaching them math, playing baseball with them outside, and enticing them to practice their lower-case letters in exchange for a Popsicle. That will all happen at some point but I’ve got all summer. I can accept that some days they will have four hours of tablet time and other days they will have none. They can earn tablet time by reading, writing, doing math exercises, and chores. And I can be okay with that.

I can be okay with all of it.

Step 3: Let go of everything else.

Let go of what other people think, what you think you *should* be doing, the guilt around not doing enough or being enough. Let it all go. Forgive yourself for not doing more or being more.

Step 4: Celebrate small wins.

Beating yourself up doesn’t get you anywhere in business or in life so start celebrating your wins.

Today, I got the kids off to their first day off summer school, saw the chiropractor, reached out to a couple of prospective clients, got the kids home from summer school, had a networking call with a referral partner, took my daughter to a doctor’s appointment, re-spackled a few holes in the wall, made dinner, took all of my vitamins, and drafted this article for my blog. When I write it out like that, it was a pretty awesome day.

Set the bar low and knock it out of the park, momma!

If you’re wondering how to get more clear about what actions you can take to find more clarity, focus, and balance in your business, email me. We can talk about what will work best for you and create a customized plan to tame your three-ring circus into a well-oiled marketing machine.